How Does It Work?
Laying the Groundwork
Restoring intimacy in a relationship is a gradual process that requires commitment and active effort from both partners. With be intimate, you'll be prompted to set aside regular time each week to focus solely on each other, whether through date nights, shared activities, or deep conversations. Building emotional intimacy is essential, so practicing open and honest communication where both partners feel heard and validated is crucial. Engaging in physical affection, such as holding hands, hugging, and cuddling, can help reinforce the emotional bond. Acts of kindness and appreciation, like doing something thoughtful for each other, can strengthen the sense of partnership. Additionally, exploring new experiences together, such as taking a class or traveling, can bring excitement and novelty into the relationship.
Bottom line: BOTH partners need to be committed to be intimate.
Game Setup
When you register for be intimate, both you and your partner will take a short quiz to determine your love language. We'll then use that data to highlight the activities that will best fit the needs of your partnership. Once you've finished setup, the game will begin when the woman deals her partner four cards: Restore, Explore, Chore and More
The Journey Begins
Once the man has been dealt four cards, the game has begun. He selects one of the four cards and marks the card as ready for scheduling. The woman is then notified of a request for scheduling and must schedule the card within the next 7 days. One card is played at a time and the cards can be played as quickly or as slowly as the woman cares to schedule them. At the slowest pace 4 cards could span 28 days. Due to the amount of time it generally takes to build trust and intimacy, we suggest be intimate be played at a moderately slow pace at the beginning.
Dealing the Cards
The woman is responsible for card selection. be intimate has an autopilot setting that makes things easy. The woman, alone or with the assistance of her partner, can simply "love" her favorite cards from the four categories; with autopilot on, the game randomly deals from the "loved" cards. Optionally, If the woman wants total control, she has the option to hand-select cards, edit them to perfection, and activate them individually. They will then be dealt to the man when cards of the same type are completed.
The Shared Calendar
The shared calendar support the scheduling of your be intimate activites. Also preloaded on the calendar are your birthdays, anniversary, and various national and international holidays celebrating love and relationships. You and your partner are free to use the shared calendar however you deem fit.